Dating: Like a Train to the Swiss Alps
Ok so you are a the conductor of a train and you are heading towards the Swiss Alps.๐
๏ปฟYou've got snacks on deck and a cooler of champagne ๐พ . Everyone on board is in a costume. There's a DJ in the first compartment, a tarot reader in the second, a massage parlor in the third, and a rousing intellectual discussion popping off in the fourth.
๏ปฟThis is how you want to be in dating.
๏ปฟWhen you cross paths (tracks!) with another train you find compelling, you invite the conductor to hop aboard your train for a while. If things feel good and you're into what's happening on their train too, maybe your tracks can run parallel, you can hang out on each other's trains, and you can choose the next destination together.
๏ปฟYou would genuinely love it if they hopped on board, and you are encouraging in your invitation.
๏ปฟYou know your train's got it going on.
๏ปฟIf this other conductor is anything less than enthusiastic about your invitation, you may feel disappointed, you may wonder why.
๏ปฟBut you do not screech to a halt. You do not try to convince them. You do not wait at the station indefinitely for them to figure out that your train is, indeed, extremely lit.
๏ปฟAs much as you would like them to climb aboard, you know you'll continue to have a great time whether or not they do. You know that there are plenty of other people who will be honored by your invitation and would love to join you.
๏ปฟYour train is moving forward and it waits for no one who can't see its value.
๏ปฟThe tunes are still bumping and you are ASSUREDLY still going to the Swiss Alps.
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