Does Confidence Affect Your Standards?
YOUR CONFIDENCE IN YOUR ABILITY TO MEET NEW PEOPLE IS WHAT EMBOLDENS YOU TO HOLD HIGH STANDARDS WITHIN RELATIONSHIPS.
When you know that there is no shortage of options for you and you know you can make new connections whenever you want, you do not demur when someone disrespects you, you do not ignore red flags or tolerate belittling comments.
There are billions of people in the world. Many of whom are phenomenal. Many of whom can see and appreciate how phenomenal you are.
Is there anything currently blocking you from seeing this and believing this down to your core?
There is no time and no energy for anyone who asks you - implicitly or explicitly - to dim your shine and justify your worthiness, for anyone who makes you question whether you deserve to be loved.
Your energy is precious. You, wherever you are reading this, are extremely precious and lovable. I'll bet you're adorable! Anyone who cannot see that can step away to make space for people who can.
Your confidence in your own relational skills, your own magnetism, and your own ability to invite in connection that FEELS GOOD wherever and whenever you want, that is what emboldens you to hold standards. This same confidence is what emboldens you to go into new unknown situations in all areas of your life.
When you know how to create/invite opportunity, you know that if someone does not want to meet your standards, you can find someone else who will be excited to meet them. This knowing is what emboldens you to step into being the chooser in your love life, to believe it in your bones, to conduct yourself from that place, and to not even entertain the bullshit.
Because in a world of infinite possibility, why would you?
Choice is freedom, and it's yours to enjoy.
How confident do you feel in your ability to meet new people?
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